Family: Between Illusion and Universal Truth

Since the beginning of time, the idea of family has been at the center of our lives. It represents our first cocoon— a space where we learn to interact, to love, and to define ourselves. The blood family, into which we are born, is seen as our first reference point, our anchor in this world. It is often synonymous with love, protection, and belonging, but it can also be a source of deep wounds and trials that profoundly mark our earthly path and spiritual evolution.

However, the true essence of family goes beyond biological and emotional ties. Family is a school of the soul— a space for learning where each person plays a specific role in the evolution of the other. It is the first circle where souls interact, sometimes harmoniously, sometimes through conflict meant to awaken consciousness.

In truth, there is a much greater Family: all of Humanity. We are all interconnected, bound by an invisible thread that transcends blood ties. We are part of a whole— a network of souls united by shared experiences, lessons to be learned, and destinies to be fulfilled. Our mission is to recognize this unity and expand our understanding of family by embracing this universal connection, where everyone is both student and teacher in the great journey of spiritual evolution.

The Bearer of Light and Role Reversal

There is at least one Bearer of Light in every family— a being who, like a beacon, can more easily connect others to the Divine Source and the right path, even if they are not always understood or listened to. This Bearer of Light has a higher vibrational amplitude than others, which allows them to carry out impactful acts— both for good and, potentially, for harm. They hold a unique energetic potential capable of deeply influencing those around them.

However, this particular connection can lead to a reversal of roles within the family. The Bearer of Light, though a natural guide, often finds themselves taking on responsibilities that should not be theirs. They become an emotional and material support for their loved ones, to the detriment of their own evolution. Every individual has their own energetic vibration with a positive and negative pole of equal intensity. The Bearer of Light must learn to balance this force so as not to be pulled into destructive dynamics.

The Attraction of Seeking Souls

The awakened soul takes on responsibilities that should never have been theirs: they raise their siblings, work to support the family, and offer emotional stability to those around them. This role reversal prevents them from experiencing a normal childhood and adult life, and from pursuing their own evolution. As long as they remain trapped in this dynamic, they feel a deep sense of injustice and stagnation on their path. They seek recognition for their efforts— recognition that rarely comes, because their loved ones have grown used to receiving without effort.

But it doesn’t stop there. After the family, the awakened individual begins to attract others who need help. Like energy vampires, these souls in search of light cling to them, seeking a glow they cannot generate on their own. These people, still trapped in limiting mental patterns and low vibrations, unconsciously sense the awakened person’s light and attempt to feed off it.

The Dangers of Sacrifice

When an awakened person delays in understanding their mission, they expose themselves to many dangers. Some end up cutting ties with their families, others exhaust themselves by giving too much. And when their loved ones eventually depart, they are left lost and empty. The accumulated suffering can lead to depression, addiction, or even suicide. Attracting endless relationships that feed off their energy can also drain their vital force, preventing them from reaching their full potential.

The Path to Liberation

The key to breaking this cycle lies in understanding that no one is superior or inferior— and that God is the Father of all. The awakened soul must learn to follow their own path, to listen to their inner being, and to observe the signs life presents. God is everywhere, in everything that surrounds us, and He guides those who are ready to see.

The awakened one must also learn to protect themselves, to set clear boundaries with those who try to feed on their light without seeking to elevate themselves. They must understand that giving indiscriminately can lead to exhaustion and, ultimately, divert them from their spiritual mission. But they must also accept that they are a trigger, a catalyst for others— helping them discover their own inner light, which exists in every person and can be revealed through their own efforts.

Being a Guide Without Sacrificing Oneself

The awakened must accept that every person has their own path and free will, and must become a true Light Guide. They must not stand between someone and their choices, but instead be an example of light and peace. By remaining aligned with what is right and good— doing good without suffering or burning out— they can truly help when the time is right.

Accepting the choices of others, not obstructing their path, and moving forward without being weighed down by souls who refuse their own transformation— this is the path to true wisdom. Being well within yourself is essential, for it is only in this state of balance and clarity that you can truly reach out to those who are falling.

Final Message

I know how hard it is to say no to those we love. But it is essential to preserve your energy— to be well within yourself in order to help them when the time comes. Do not let your light burn out. Let it shine wherever you go. Always take a stand for what is just and good, without ever imposing on another’s choice. For by standing tall, strong, and aligned, you can be the guide your loved ones will look for when the time of collapse arrives.

Our association exists to support you in this quest for light. We are here to help you reconnect with your essence, to see and hear God through life’s signs. Every step of your journey has meaning, and every challenge is an opportunity for growth. Open your heart, accept your mission, and become the living example of spiritual transformation.

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